Hi, its Nick Arkesteyn,

I wanted to take a moment to introduce myself.  I'm a pretty normal guy that found myself in an interesting situation.  I never relay had great social skills.  Heck, I didn't need them.  All my friends were handed to me through school and simply living in the same place for so long when I was younger.  I did however suffer from severe social anxiety when I was around people that I didn't know.

As it turned out, I became a dad at a young age.  My son's mom ended up marrying a guy in the military.  That meant she would be taking my son from city to city every 3 years.

In order for me to see my son, I decided that I would move every time they did.  This ended up being a certain type of social torture I wasn't prepared for.  I had to start my social life over from scratch every 3 years.

After I decided to get this part of my life handled, I read hundreds of books and went through 1000s of hours of other trianings.  And none of that really worked all the well for me.  Then I realized I could put my engineering background to good use.  So I started experimenting and creating my own systems until I eventually "got it".

After a few years of crafting my own systems, I finally ended up with the social life that I wanted.  I was creating and running my own social groups.  The largest groups in my city.  I had a huge network of close friends.  Friends I could trust, take trips with, and go to dinner with.  I was able to get a date just about any night of the week.  And I ran in social circles so large, I didn't know what to do with them.  And best of all, I was able to overcome my social anxiety.

Eventually people started asking me how I got to be so good at dealing with social situations.  So I started training people one-on-one and eventually put on training seminars in my area.  It turns out that I had a knack for this sort of thing.  And that is why I am talking to you right now. 

I'm not perfect and I have my flaws.   I just happen to be good at helping people get the social lives they want.  I never would have guessed in a thousand years that this would have been my calling.

I can't wait to help you get the social life of your dreams!

Sincerely,